An onsen is a Japanese hot spring. The onsen is essentially a Japanese
public bath (sento) with normal hot spring water, and its history
and manners are very closely related to the sento. The onsen plays
a vital role in Japanese culture, offering socially institutionalized
relief from the pressures of the modern Japanese twelve-hour work
ethic and a chance for Japanese to break down the hierarchal life
of society through the mutual nudity of skin ship.
Ideally, they need to be outdoors (though many are indoors), use
naturally hot water directly removed from a natural volcanic spring,
and they are often overstated with (or, in the cheaper varieties,
replaced by) a very wide variety of extravagant spa baths, non-natural
waterfalls and saunas. The essential difference amid an onsen and
any sento (communal bath house) is that the water in an onsen should
be volcanic spring in the origin, even if again heated,whereas a
sento might use ordinary heated water. Onsen water is often by way
of healing powers according to its mineral properties and onsens
often have few different baths, each increased by the addition of
different minerals or the composition of the tub.
Note that at an onsen, as in bath you wash your body and clean yourself
thoroughly before you enter the hot water. This is fundamental in
a public place as inward bound the onsen while still dirty or covered
in soap would cause chaos and may disturb the views of other people.
At the very least, if you have not yet washed (perhaps because you
showered half an hour earlier) use the scoop again provided to splash
water over your genitals and feet, thus emblematically cleansing
The most significant features of the onsen by far are the water and the
bathing services that is why many bathers just come for an hour
or so to soak in the waters even if they do not stay. Probably the
next most important issue for Japanese guests could be the food,
a good onsen inn (or ryokan) would offer what it claims is something
particular in the way of the evening meal. Because ryokan tend to
quietly pressure people towards eating their sunset meal at set
times (e.g. 6pm) the baths are often isolated around this hour of
the day, this is a good time to hit the tub. While rub and other
services are a lot offered, they are peripheral.
If you go with your friend to an onsen it is quite possible that the
experience of being buck nude together in a pool of hot water would
break down some of the hierarchical stiffness inherent to Japanese
work life. However, most visitors to onsen are not work groups but
could friends, couples and families. It is not very common to see
a father or mother introducing a small child to the onsen for the
first time. Very small children of either sex up to about 7 years
old could be seen in both male and female baths. Mixed-sex bathing
is a tradition, which persists at onsen in the more rural areas
in Japan, although these days there are commonly a separate women-only
bath in addition to the mixed bath. Wearing swimsuits is openly
forbidden at the more customary onsen and will be considered odd
at most. Nudity is the usual state of affairs at an onsen.
Onsen are places to relax and although the baths are typically quiet
it is a silence interrupted by the odd sign or grunt of satisfaction.
There is nothing wrong talking silently with friends or partners.
People in the same bath or pool might well strike up with a conversation
with you (at least if you are a foreigner). Often, people would
be seen in the water with a towel, over the groin for men and for
chest to groin for women. Note that this is approximately only seen
in these settings, and most people never dress in their towel in
this fashion. Indeed, it is considered bad manners to dip your towel
in the onsen water at all; although you would infrequently see Japanese
do this. The towel is sometimes folded into a square and worn on
the head, though this is by no means a norm.